Fall Weddings & what to wear that’s “Age-Appropriate” (Without Losing Your Spark)
Fall wedding season is fast approaching and it doesn’t have to involve scratchy fabrics, itchy sequins, or outfits you’ll forget by Christmas.
The best part? You can look beautiful, feel comfortable, and be completely you—all with pieces right off the racks of Three Wild Women, no alterations needed for these ones!
We stopped doing long ball gowns and to the floor corseted things a long time ago when the needs of the mother of the bride or mother of the groom changed. We noticed that weddings were becoming smaller, less black tie and more cocktail. If you’re looking for that Black Tie appropriate dress, unfortunately you won’t find it here but let us help with everything else.
Because, you know, it’s not just the wedding. It’s the rehearsal dinner. It’s the brunch after. All of the events leading up to the wedding where you’re going to want to look a little more dressed up than just your everyday sundress.
What Is "Age-Appropriate" in 2025?
“Age-appropriate” doesn’t mean beige swathes or shapeless coverage. Contrary to what the internet is saying, you can actually show your knees if you’d like. Today, it means leaning into elegance, embracing flattering silhouettes, and adding just a touch of modern spirit. Experts call it trend-balanced timelessness—mixing today’s style without feeling like you’re trying too hard.
In other words, in my words, dress how you feel good and those rules we had to deal with growing up? We’re throwing them to the wind!
For us women over 50, fall weddings call for luxurious textures, rich tones, and silhouettes that let you move, breathe, and shine… but not with sweat.
Choose Lux Fall Fabrics That Still Breathe
Think velvet, soft crepe, smooth drape—but make it light enough to handle changing weather.
For example, the Shyloh Silk Blend Dress brings together 30% silk and 70% viscose, with a flattering lined dolman sleeve or flutter sleeve silhouette that fits sizes 6–14 . It feels luxurious, without being “too dressy”. I know you still want to be dressy, it's a wedding after all, but taken a look at the invite or ask the couple what they're doing for their dress code. You'll feel just as out of place if you show up in a ball gown and everyone else is in cocktail dresses.
Lean into Jewel Tones and Textures
Fall is rich with colour: burgundy, navy, olive, and soft earth tones—from sapphire to rust. Of course, you don't want to match the bridal party but you can't go wrong with a good jewel tone. It looks great on us gals with a bit of silver in our hair. Colours to stay away from are generally the pinks and the neutrals. You know? The tans and the light browns?
I would always double check with the bride and groom about their colours and choose one that goes but doesn't match.
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Silhouettes That Flatter (and Comfort That Lasts)
I don't know about you but a slip is as far as I'm going with shape-wear these days. I like my popcorn and I'm not going to apologize for it.
The Shyloh dress—a soft, flowing silhouette—is a great example. Its gentle fit and ease of wear elevate the day without restricting it.
Layer Smart (Because Fall Weather Isn’t Loyal)
Fall weather often means starting the day in a cozy sweater and ending it with a shawl—or the reverse. Here are the two we recommend:
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Enter the HabitatBack Jacket: structured enough to feel special, soft enough to wear all night, and easily adds polish without bulk. You can also roll it up and tuck it into your purse so you can pull it out at any moment.
Accessorize to Elevate (Not Overwhelm)
Let fall textures do some of the work: a beaded clutch (available at the shop), a velvet shawl—no need to pile on statement pieces unless that’s your signature.
Explore bold jewellery or elegant scarves if that feels true to you—but let the dress be the star, not the accessories. It's very of the times to leave the neck bare but to wear some great earrings.
A Little Comfort Goes a Long Way
Heels are optional, especially on damp ground. Think sleek flats, stylish wedges, or booties in comfy yet elegant materials.
Weddings are long days; your gratitude—or dance moves—will show appreciation more than your shoes ever could.
The last thing I'll Say About it.
A wedding is one day. What matters is feeling confident, comfortable, and seen in a dress that lets you be you.
Whether you choose the silk-blend Shyloh dress or that soft Habitat jacket, know it’s possible to look wedding-ready without abandoning comfort—or your spirit.
Stop by Three Wild Women and we’ll help you strike that fall balance between easy, elegant, and right-for-you.
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